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How To Cultivate Healthy Humor
Q: A lot of my friends find amusement in things that I personally consider offensive -- TV shows, movies, jokes, etc. I want our family to enjoy the lighter side of life and encourage laughter in our home ... but do it in an appropriate and uplifting way. Do you have any helpful guidelines for healthy humor?
Jim: Let's start by acknowledging ...Read more
Nostalgia for a Bad Habit
I miss smoking.
There. I've said it.
Now, I don't miss it enough to go out and buy a $17 pack of cigarettes -- which is apparently the lunatic price these days -- and sit down and smoke them, but I certainly miss it enough to hope that if I'm ever on a plane that's about to go down in a fiery ball the Bermuda Triangle, some kind soul on ...Read more
Column: Teaching daughter to drive is a lesson in letting go
MINNEAPOLIS — When she drove off in her car for the first time last month, my daughter had a smile as wide as I’d ever seen.
That first drive is freedom. It’s bliss. It’s exciting.
While she beamed, however, I froze. The next hour or so seemed surreal.
It had been almost 25 years since I’d had that same feeling — albeit after a ...Read more
The Ancients Understood Doomscrolling
Think of the Talmud as the Jewish sort of Guide to Life, an ancient text written by rabbis chewing over the thorniest issues for hundreds of years. I mention it today because it's almost as if the Talmud writers understood what would happen if we watched TV or surfed the internet.
They knew it would drive us wild with worry. From the ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'THEY WILL KILL YOU'
Rated R for strong bloody violence, gore, language and brief sexual content/nudity.
What it’s about: A woman infiltrates a mysterious Manhattan apartment building in hopes of rescuing her sister.
The kid attractor factor: This is an extremely violent horror action comedy — not for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Don...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Do I have to go to my ex's wedding?
Q. My ex just told me in one breath that he is getting married and then, with the next breath, invited me to the wedding. As good as we all get along, I was a little shocked -- and I really don’t want to go. Our daughter will be the flower girl and I’m concerned she may be uncomfortable. How do I decline the invitation without offending him?...Read more
Lori Borgman: Introducing ink-redible grandmas
Grandma is close at heart. Literally. And permanently.
A picture was in this morning’s paper of a young man proudly showing a tattoo of his beloved late grandma on his chest, along with a quote from her.
Sweet. Very, very sweet.
Naturally, with 11 grands, I ask myself, “What are the chances?”
At this stage of the game, the best I could...Read more
6 thrillers where beautiful people make bad decisions
Money buys silence. Status buys patience … And reputation? Well, that buys second chances.
The following novels understand this all too well, and dismantle the privileged systems without mercy. Set among rehab centers built to protect the famous, towns that quietly adjusted to old crimes and communities governed by image and inheritance, ...Read more
Preparing To Talk To Pre-Teens About Sex
Q: In most situations I'm a pretty confident guy. But the thought of having the "birds and bees" talk with my pre-teen son has me sweating bullets. Help?!
Jim: I think most guys relate. My sons are grown men now, but I remember I was pretty nervous when the time came for me to talk with my oldest, Trent, about sex. Human reproduction can be ...Read more
Advice for Anxious Parents
Parents today are scared. A new survey from the Institute for Family Studies found that the average parent will not let their kids roam more than 100 yards from home until they are 8 or 9 years old.
Of course it's natural to want to protect kids from danger. The problem is that our culture has trained parents to see danger everywhere they look....Read more
Planned Parenthood of Illinois agrees to pay $500,000 over allegations of discrimination against white employees
CHICAGO — Planned Parenthood of Illinois has agreed to pay $500,000 following an investigation by the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission into allegations that its white employees faced harassment and discrimination, according to the federal agency.
The EEOC investigated charges made by multiple employees and found “reasonable ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'PROJECT HAIL MARY'
Rated PG-13 for some thematic material and suggestive references.
What it’s about: An unassuming science teacher finds himself alone in space trying to save the world and befriending an alien.
The kid attractor factor: This sweet and heartwarming sci-fi epic appeals mostly to adults but might draw kids as well with its ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: It's not enough
Q. I see my daughter every other weekend, and it's not enough. I saw her more often before I took my current job, but I now work the swing shift and get home at 11 p.m., Monday through Friday. I'm thinking about changing jobs to an 8-5, moving to another county, and then applying for full custody. Her mother can have every other weekend and see ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Sometimes the reviews are fishy
In this Age of Review and Return, almost 93% of all shoppers read reviews before making a purchase. Even though we review before we buy, we often return the purchase after it arrives.
There was a time when returns were a rarity. Oh, there were exceptions, but you had to face a stern clerk, who often consulted a stern manager. Now, you just ...Read more
When forgiveness fails, vengeance thrives in Caroline Glenn’s 'Cruelty Free'
That uniquely magical moment when a novel knocks you flat and makes you ask, “Did that really just happen?” The joy of reading a passage multiple times to revisit the delightful insanity that liberates the reader from their reality.
In "Cruelty Free," author Caroline Glenn delivers a number of these moments in a playfully sinister new ...Read more
'The Seven Daughters of Dupree' weaves a haunting tapestry of Black womanhood
Nikesha Elise Williams starts the prologue of "The Seven Daughters of Dupree" with a sentence so horrible readers will hope it’s a metaphor for something less unthinkable. And then, as though taking the hand of a reluctant child, Williams pulls her readers into the first chapter – and into a hair salon where we meet the first of seven women ...Read more
When To Remarry After Divorce
Q: Recently I've gone through a divorce that I didn't want. My ex has already moved on and there's no going back, so I'm starting to look forward myself. How soon is too soon to get married again after divorce?
Jim: There's no one-size-fits-all answer to "how soon is too soon." But since this is a question that our counselors at Focus on the ...Read more
The 'Easy Way Out' May Not Be So Easy After all
I've been hearing a lot lately about how it's "taking the easy way out" to use GLP-1s to lose weight.
That may be true. But then again, you might be able to say the same thing about virtually every medical advancement. When you boil it down, chemotherapy is "taking the easy way out" of testicular cancer. Penicillin is "taking the easy way out...Read more
Republicans cut off Medicaid funding for Planned Parenthood. Philadelphia-area clinics are scrambling to maintain services
PHILADELPHIA — Planned Parenthood clinics in the Philadelphia area expect to lose $3.1 million in Medicaid revenue this year due to funding cuts under President Donald Trump’s signature spending plan.
The deficit puts thousands of low-income people who rely on Planned Parenthood Southeastern Pennsylvania’s clinics at risk of losing access...Read more
Pack It In, Parents
Got a mule handy? Great! Because I've been flipping through old parenting magazines I should throw out already, looking for valuable advice.
Instead, here's what I found: a list of items one article suggests you take along if you're traveling to, say, your brother-in-law's house for a long weekend with your baby:
--A portable crib
--A baby ...Read more
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